Steven C Hayes on controlling your thoughts

Steven C. Hayes is Nevada Foundation Professor in the Behavior Analysis program at the Department of Psychology at the University of Nevada. An author of 44 books and nearly 600 scientific articles, his career has focused on an analysis of the nature of human language and cognition and the application of this to the understanding and alleviation of human suffering. He is the developer of Relational Frame Theory, an account of human higher cognition, and has guided its extension to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a popular evidence-based form of psychotherapy that uses mindfulness, acceptance, and values-based methods. 

Watch Steven's fabulous TED talk. 

Listen to the song I wrote after being inspired by my conversation with Steven - 'ACT' and all the other Podsongs 

 

 

Lyrics to the song that was inspired by the interview:

ACT

BPM 113  

VERSE 

Most of us live in a state of constant confusion 

As automatic thoughts cause circuitous delusions 
Bf 
We don't want these feelings 

So choose distractions 

But with simple exercises, your mind can be taught 
To watch the act of thinking without entangling in thoughts 
Welcome emotions 
Hold them to the light  

Bf                               C 
Defuse your thoughts, choose how to react 
Defuse your thoughts, choose how to react 

VERSE 
For a minute let your mind go wherever it wants 
Then write down the thoughts you had, every little point 
When you've let the fish run 
Reel him in 

Now disobey on purpose the dictator within 
Write down the phrase "I cannot walk around this room" 
Then read it outloud 
While you walk around 

Or give your mind a name, and listen to it speak 
Politely as you would to any stranger you meet 
And agree or disagree 
Respectfully 

Defuse your thoughts, choose how to react 
Defuse your thoughts, choose how to react 

MIDDLE (whispering and downbeat) 
Bf  
For sticky thoughts 

Sing them away 
Dm 
To the tune of 

Happy Birthday 

Or write them down 
And carry them with you 
Wherever you go 
Through your day 

Bf 
Accept every memory, every faction 

Override rigid reactions 

WHISTLING VERSE 

VERSE 
So you've noticed now that there's more than one voice 
An argument begins whenever you're faced with a choice 
Does this to-and-fro 
Feel familiar? 

Write down what the voices are repeating at you 
Don't think which are appropriate or even true 
See them as quarrelling children 
Watch in amusement 

Now your mind's a bus, thoughts are passengers 
But they're distracting your driving and causing a fuss 
Keep your destination sign 
Always in mind 

Defuse your thoughts, choose how to react 
Defuse your thoughts, choose how to react 
Defuse your thoughts, choose how to react